Meningkatkan Keberfungsian Keluarga melalui Family Rituals dan Relevansinya terhadap Budaya Anti Kekerasan Seksual
Keywords:
Anti-Sexual violence, Culture, family ritual, family functioning, education
Abstract
Sexual violence in Indonesia is a very crucial problem. Data on sexual violence shows a very significant increase from year to year. One of the main causes of this violence is the occurrence of family dysfunction which has an impact on the low culture of anti-violence, both in the context of the family and society at large. This study aims to deeply examine how to improve family function through family rituals and explain its relevance to anti-sexual violence culture. This research is based on library data such as journal articles and books as well as online data. The data were analyzed in terms of content (content analysis) with a psychological approach, which more specifically used the concept of family functioning from McMaster's perspective. This study shows that family rituals consisting of eating together, holidays and important moments can increase family functioning optimally. The family ritual is not just a routine, but becomes a valuable moment for the family to foster harmony, internalization and socialization. In this context, the functioning of the family has a very strong relevance to foster a culture of anti-violence, both through its cognitive, effective and psychomotor roles. This research also states that the best solution to create an anti-sexual violence culture must start from simple things. Among them is determining meaningful family rituals. Importantly, these family rituals enhance the functioning of the family as the first madrasa (al-madrasah al-ula) both in the context of education and in the context of protection from all forms of sexual violence.
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El-bagiz, S. syahirah, Karimulloh, K., & Kinanthi, M. R. (2021). The Role of Family Function in the Quality of Life Related to Health in Poor Adolescents According to an Islamic Perspective: Peran Keberfungsian Keluarga Terhadap Kualitas Hidup Terkait Kesehatan Pada Remaja Miskin Menurut Perspektif Islam. Proceding of Inter-Islamic University Conference on Psychology, 1 No 1(1), 8.
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Honda, J., Nakai, Y., Kakazu, S., & Hohashi, N. (2015). Factors Affecting the Perception of Family Functioning among Couples in Child-Rearing Japanese Families. Open Journal of Nursing, 05(05), 407–415. https://doi.org/10.4236/ojn.2015.55044
Hufad, A. (2003). Perilaku Kekerasan: Analisis Menurut Sistem Budaya dan Implikasi Edukatif. Mimbar Pendidikan, 22(2), 52–61.
Iwamony, R. (2020). Cinta kasih sebagai dasar hidup keluarga. Osf.Io, 5.
Jamil, R. A., Gunarya, A., & Kusmarini, D. (2019). Ritual Keluarga sebagai Diskriminan Keberfungsian Keluarga. Jurnal Psikologi Sosial, 17(1), 46–56. https://doi.org/10.7454/jps.2019.7
Kadir, A., & Handayaningsih, A. (2020). Kekerasan Anak dalam Keluarga. Wacana, 12(2), 133–145. https://doi.org/10.13057/wacana.v12i2.172
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Lestari, S. (2016). Psikologi Keluarga: Penanaman Nilai & Penanganan Konflik dalam Keluarga. Jakarta:Prenadamedia Group
Lius, V. H., & Sanjaya, E. L. (2020). Pengaruh Family Ritual Vacation dan Financial Management Terhadap Wellbeing pada Orang Tua yang Memiliki Anak yang Sedang Menempuh Pendidikan Influence of Family Ritual Vacation and Financial Management to Wellbeing In Parents with Their Kids Participatin. 4(2).
Ma’unatul, K. (2020). Inisiasi Kesetaraan Hubungan Seksual dalam al-Baqarah: 223 (Analisis Qira’ah Mubadalah Faqihuddin Abdul Kodir). Repository IAIN Purwokerto, 223, 94.
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Nasution, K. (2016). Kekerasan Seksual dan Perlindungan Anak. Al-Risalah: Forum Kajian Hukum Dan Sosial Kemasyarakatan, 16(1), 19–31.
Nurhayati, & Syahrizal. (2015). Urgensi Dan Peran Ibu Sebagai Madrasah Al-Ula Dalam Pendidikan Anak. ITQAN : Jurnal Ilmu-Ilmu Kependidikan, 6(2), 153–166.
Perempuan, K. (2021). Perempuan dalam Himpitan Pandemi: Lonjakan Kekerasan Seksual, Kekersan Siber, Perkawinan Anak, dan Keterbatasan Penanganan di Tengah Covid-19. 5–9.
Qudsyi, H., & Gusniarti, U. (2007). Hubungan Antara Keberfungsian Keluarga Dengan Penalaran Moral Pada Anak Usia Akhir. Jurnal Ilmiah Berkala Psikologi, 9(1), 44–61.
Utami Zahirah Noviani, Rifdah Arifa K, Cecep, S. H. (2018). Mengatasi dan mencegah tindak kekerasan seksual pada perempuan dengan pelatihan asertif. 5.
Wanita Medan (2019). "BKKBN Luncurkan Gerakan Kembali ke Meja Makan, Dukung Yuk!. https://wanitamedan.com/bkkbn-luncurkan-gerakan-kembali-ke-meja-makan-dukung-yuk/ diakses 31 Oktober 2022
Wawa (2012). "10 Manfaat Makan Bersama" https://lifestyle.kompas.com/read/2012/07/03/10201132/~Beranda~Gaya%20Hidup diakses 31 Oktober 2022
Wibowo, D. E. (2011). Peran Ganda Perempuan dan Kesetaraan Gender. Gender, 3(1), 356–364.
Wolin, S. J., & Bennett, L. A. (1984). Family rituals a typology of family rituals. Fam Proc, 23(3), 401–420.
Yulia Herawaty, & Ratna Wulan. (2013). Hubungan Antara Keberfungsian Keluarga dan Daya Juang Dengan Belajar Berdasar Regulasi Diri Pada Remaja. Jurnal Psikologi UIN Sultan Syarif Kasim Riau, 9(Desember), 138=147.
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2023-01-07
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