Contemporary Social Dynamics in Choosing an Islamic Family Life Partner

Abstract

This article discusses contemporary social dynamics in the selection of a life partner in an Islamic family, looking at the shift in marriage patterns basically not only in the process or in determining a partner. Instead, it is more about the impact on achieving the goals and functions of the family itself, currently there are various forms of models in the family. commonly encountered. The author uses a type of qualitative research with the data collection technique used, namely using literary study techniques sourced from existing books or journals while also using a sociological perspective by focusing on one's experiences, desires and considerations in choosing a life partner, data sources in the article This is primary and secondary data. Data interpretation techniques used are textual, contextual and intercontextual interpretations.shows the form of eligibility indicators seen in two main dimensions, namely the ability of potential partners to take into account religious aspects, and economic aspects. while the second dimension is whether or not a partner is allowed to be chosen and the marriage takes place. It is no less important that prayer and istikharah prayer are recommended ways to ask for guidance and support in the form of heart stability, when a proposal comes or when you are about to propose to someone. If all of these steps have been carried out, but the reality is that we still find a partner who is not quite right, or a partner who cannot be invited to form a harmonious family, that is actually a test of our faith. Because we cannot be said to have faith if we have not passed the test.